PRIVATE MENTORSHIP
INTIMATE one-on-one mentorship
In a world where we can Google any answer, easily access external guidance, and use comparison to decide we’re not enough, our own intuition has practically become non-existent. How can we hear our own voice when we’re constantly looking to others for the answers? And what do we do when those answers don’t seem to work?
STEP INTO THE LIFE THAT GOD HAS WAITING FOR YOU
The only high-touch mentorship built specifically for unplanned moms.
WHY CHOOSE THE UNPLANNED MOM SCHOOL?
FINANCIAL COACHING
Benefit from Ashley's expertise in financial planning and budgeting. She’s been trained and certified through Dave Ramsey’s coaching program. She walks you through biblically sound principles and works with you to build a plan that feels in alignment for how God wants you to live your life.
EMPATHY & UNDERSTANDING
Ashley's personal journey allows her to connect with you on a deeper level. If she doesn’t feel like you’ll be a good fit she has a robust referral network to put you in touch with the right expert to help you get on the path to success. Referral partners include; counselors, addiction support groups, post-abortive coaches, other life and financial coaches that may be better suited for your unique situation.
FRESH PERSPECTIVE
Break free from societal expectations and embrace your true potential. We hear it all the time that women are hungry for God and a place to learn how to connect to the one source of truth to be able to step into the beautiful lives that they have been given. Yes, we embrace the messy, but we’re also looking to live our best lives as that is the only way we can serve God.
But what happens when your fear is running you?
✔️ You find yourself frazzled, frustrated, scared, and completely spiraling in your own head.
✔️ Most of your friends are spending thousands of dollars trying to conceive and you are pregnant and unsure what to think about it.
✔️ Your brain can’t process why you feel so angry and blessed at the same time. Your mind just. won’t. stop. racing.
✔️ You’ve got so many fears around what others will think of you and you’re struggling to find the focus you know you need to grow with God.
✔️ You’re throwing everything at your partner, but they just aren’t getting you.
✔️ Let’s face it - right now you feel like you’re winging it and trying to keep the peace with co-workers, friends, and family members as you try to figure you’re sh*t out.
Sound familiar?
It does not have to be like this, my friend.
I’m here to show you there’s a much better way, and it’s possible to hit those BIG goals and dreams you have despite unplanned life! Release the shame and guilt for being pregnant while your friends struggle. Because that guilt is real.
Introducing…
The Living Courageously Program
The only high-touch program for unplanned moms that combines practical, sound, God-driven advice to help you pivot and live your best life.
But let’s get one thing straight first…I’m not a typical coach, and this is not your typical mentorship
Here’s why the Living Courageously Program is different.
Typical Online Support Programs
✏️ Share generic advice on what to do, but it’s totally on you to figure out the how and then take action on your own
🔮 Join free online groups and feel like an outsider because it’s hard to search and make genuine connections with other high achieving woman like yourself
📆 Make planning a surface level activity that doesn’t go deep into what action steps need to happen to get you back on track with God’s purpose for your life
⌛️ Focused on creating space for you to come to your own conclusions about what you should do
😩 General conversations
The Living Courageously Program
📌 Combines practical strategies and implementation guidelines so you make a clearly defined plan on what needs to get done in your life
🔑 Access to experts and other high achieving women so that you can save time by learning from other high-achieving women
📝 Prioritizes detailed quarterly planning that goes way beyond random generic topics that aren’t getting you back on track with God’s purpose for your life
🤗 Places focus on foundational strategy so you can avoid wasting time when you get crystal clear on your intentions for you and your family
❤️🔥 Premiere Network for unplanned moms ready to learn from their surprise(s) and keep moving forward to create an impact in the world
If this is hitting, then the living courageously program was made for you
Hey there, I’m ashley.
I typically work as a private mentor alongside extremely ambitious unplanned moms.
I’ve also had my fair share of unplanned moments and am still unpacking how dysfunctions in my family impacted me. It hindered my decision-making and led me into very unhealthy relationships, sexual promiscuity, codependency, abuse, unplanned pregnancies, planned pregnancies that ended in miscarriage, divorce, and so many other messy parts of life that make us exactly who we are supposed to be.
I see you, I feel you, and I know you are made for more.
My Story
2005: I learned that I was pregnant as a junior in college
2008: Divorced and became a single mom
2008 +: I’ve spent years in and out of counseling and twelve-step programs to understand how I was affected by the disease of alcoholism. The many traits that get passed from one generation to the next.
2010: I started an online company called Action Ashley to help women facing unplanned pregnancies, mainly through my blog, volunteer opportunities, and publishing my first e-book. Over the years, I’ve served at pregnancy resource centers, been on the board of a pregnancy home for young women, teaching career training and preparation courses at a pregnancy center, and currently serve as a board member on Choose Life of MO to promote life through personalized license plates.
2011: I married the man that I planned on spending the rest of my life with
2013 & 2015: We experienced two miscarriages when we were ‘trying’ to get pregnant
2018: We decided to quit trying (opted not to pursue fertility treatment) and be a family of three.
2019: God blessed us with a major surprise! A baby girl.
2021: God surprised us again in a way that I never dreamed possible with another baby girl. I found my church home, and my relationship with God has been getting stronger daily.
2022: I made a career change, acknowledged my codependency, and worked on fixing myself to be the best mom to all three of my daughters. I started to learn more about Jesus and understand my spiritual gifts through leadership programs at my church.
2022: My marriage was in trouble, and this was the year it went up in flames, and the separation process began. The grief was insurmountable. As I started walking to Christ, the enemy went on the attack to kill, steal and destroy everything in my life, but Jesus was my foundation. My heart was being made new.
2023: Adjusting to my new life as a single mom, entrepreneurship, and leadership. I’m so excited to see what God has in store and the women He continues to put into my path to help others. I completed Dave Ramsey’s financial coaching program and have an open heart to find other women in similar situations looking to turn their pain into their purpose.
Inside the program…
The Living Courageously Program is a NO fluff zone
I believe that God runs the show and I help you tap into your own intuition to make an actionable plan designed for ONLY you. This program includes all of the tools, tips, and next-level strategies that will help you get back on track with God with ease and intention. (best of all - NOT worrying about what others will think of you) These are the same strategies that I use behind the scenes in my own life and as a mentor.
“My experience working with Ashley has been incredible. I was really struggling to show up as my best self prior to working with her. I felt chaotic and all over the place. Ashley has helped me to see things in a different light to allow me to step into being my true self in this world. Working with her, I made in my thinking. It has made all the difference in my confidence instead of just winging things secretly and feeling frustrated.
Ashley changed things for me in the best possible way. She asks thoughtful questions, provides resources, and is there to support me.
She is a genius at what she does!”
Here’s a glimpse of what we can do together
Living Courageously through…
Private 1:1 support
Voxer Support
The entire Resource Library + Courses
Personal accountability & check-ins
